Dear God, - I’m 34 and I’m just wondering when The Real Thing starts. You see, I have spent my whole life practicing and preparing for The Real Thing and I’ve put off contentment and doing what I truly want, until that moment presents itself. I studied double maths , so I could get a law degree, so I could get a good corporate job, so I could… I have ignored my mounting anxiety problems, because I was going to leave that until I’d arrived at The Real Thing. My last boyfriend left me because I couldn’t love the one I was with. How do I know when the dress rehearsal has ended and my time on stage has begun? Lucy, Barcelona/Spain
