Was at the Salon last night getting a hair cut, and there were these two girls sitting next to me while I was waiting for my turn. For a minute there I almost shit myself, obviously eavesdropping on their conversation. Then the question was, are females actually better at this players game than males? And why do you think that they better? Picture
they do play it good, but they can never be better than guys cos at one point or another they put emotions into their game plan.... "nothing personal its just business"
Couldn't have said it better than Bugzy
when guys cheat they forget the lil things that they used to do for their gal, n it becomes noticable after a while. with us, emotions or not (tho many gals can cheat without getting attached) we do do it good. lol
yah, females tend to bring emotions to the game --- but guys are clumsy with follow through interms of not letting the other girl [regte] notice though.
I agree with seilatsatsi. Guys get lazy sometimes & end up doing shit 2 give themselves away. Females do get their feelings involved (sometimes) but we're never, ever sloppy about it....
@ Queen K - please explain "Sloopy"
I think the only reason we seem sloppy as dudes is cause we grow up expecting women to understand.
Like you trully declare she loves you after catchin you with your hands in another cookie jar and forgives you.
And if she's forgiving you not for the first but the third time bes believe you's the MAN(only to her and yourself though)
so the sloppiness is more a tactic of testing waters. on some "would she allow me to try this?" type of thing.
INTERESTING! George sloppy as in not covering himself up well enough, leaving clues, n being just plain obvious bout the fact that he's cheating
I kinda agree with ATWT (sorry ur name's 2 long!) cos girls will c these signs, i mean its as clear as daylight, but will choose 2 not believ its true or sweep it under the carper & hope it doesnt show its ugly head again (which it always does)
So do guys still respect their w/men after they've been caught & been taken back?? Who's 2 say it wnt happen again?
@Queen K - ok, but now arnt women always looking for clues, even when you are not cheating? You could be actually working late and not doing the secretary. And she will accuse you of such ....
and then this quote would come through ...
"if im gonna be persecuted for a crime i didn't commit - i might as well commit"
*im just saying
i guess some girls are generally paranoid and it depends on the level of trust in the relationship. its true GG, if she is gonna acuse u then u might as well just fall for sumn that u actually did.
if u trust ur man n he calls saying he is working late, ur response will be sumn like 'don work urself too hard' as opposed to 'r u alone or is ur secretary still there' type thing.
Bare ke Catch 22 - its easier to defend yourself for something you did than for something you havent done. If you didint do it, you dont know what lie to tell - but if you did it on the other hand ... its something different.
*Me thinks
I saw some of these comments in twitter and i must say women are better at cheating. i say this because guys tend to let their egos get the better of them, like Seilatsatsi said they forget about the lil things they should be doing to keep regte happy. plus females are so sooo much better at being lairs.
yeah i agree with the ladies on the forum
women are better at cheating
we're emotional yes, but that's the thing that distracts you while we're lying our way out of where we've been.
and also, women are like cats and men are like dogs when it comes to cheating. you've seen a dog humping another dog, but you'll be damned if you've seen a cat.
men also tend to stop respecting their woman when they're cheating so they care less about hiding, we respect our man enough to keep it squeky clean, therefore you will never, and i mean never know that we've done anything.
i've personally been in relationships where the man thinks it ended cos he was such a big player, when i had been doing it from the get go, and he still doesn't know that
After that comment --- i think ama stay single for little longer than i anticipated!
lol, casual is the way to go, lol
I think the ish that messes up the whole relationship structure is the public discussions of relationships. sure you learn a bit more but then again not knowing RARELY hurts. see now GGM will be paranoid at the next person he dates cause WRITER CHICK has planted that thought in his head. Now we get into relationships with expectations of how they gonna behave and how they expect us to behave with out them saying a thing.