STUDIO83 - News - Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! - Comments http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698 Creative Unity. Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:17:34 +0200 http://2lmn.co.za/work/harvest?apples en-za Copyright (c) 2012 2LMN R+D Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Monsieur Polk http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2444 Monsieur Polk Fri, 12 Mar 2010 17:17:34 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2444 <p>I am kinda married these days and so the ball game changes. I mean I know exactly what my wife wants, how were and on which days, but however she over subscribes to mistakes #2 (ignoring the twin gentlemen) & #3 (Not initiating). I can live without #2 but I have used #3 against her (it was hard) but she still hasn't come round to demanding her marital rights.</p><p>I think I see our issue after all this informative back & forth (@Mello & @seilatsatsi) we don't communicate about all them bump and grind things. </p><p>I now get that communication is lubrication. </p><p>Going home now.</p> I am kinda married these days and so the ball game changes. I mean I know exactly what my wife wants, how were and on which days, but however she over subscribes to mistakes #2 (ignoring the twin gentlemen) & #3 (Not initiating). I can live without #2 but I have used #3 against her (it was hard) but she still hasn't come round to demanding her marital rights.

I think I see our issue after all this informative back & forth (@Mello & @seilatsatsi) we don't communicate about all them bump and grind things.

I now get that communication is lubrication.

Going home now.

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Kabelo http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2443 Kabelo Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:59:28 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2443 <p>kakakakaka smelly sneakers... but @Writer Chick sometimes tell yourself that you gonna blow that p&&*$& into oblivion is good, you get to hype yourself and in a way set a goal and once you score you feel like a Mini-god</p> kakakakaka smelly sneakers... but @Writer Chick sometimes tell yourself that you gonna blow that p&&*$& into oblivion is good, you get to hype yourself and in a way set a goal and once you score you feel like a Mini-god

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Bugzy http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2440 Bugzy Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:33:55 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2440 <p>only on the Round Table baby.... only on the Round Table!</p> only on the Round Table baby.... only on the Round Table!

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by George Gladwin Matsheke http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2436 George Gladwin Matsheke Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:21:36 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2436 <p>LMAO! @smelly sneakers please [we assume rappers] <br />*hides too then giggles</p> LMAO! @smelly sneakers please [we assume rappers]
*hides too then giggles

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Writer chick http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2435 Writer chick Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:17:38 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2435 <p>i have been enjoying this round table i must say</p><p>my 2 cents: to the men, it doesn't help when you've already told yourself that you can tear that ass up, when it's your first time with said ass. so ego's left at the door with your smelly sneakers please.</p><p>and i agree with Mellow and Mosa, the key to knowing what you want, is to find it out yourself. (so that you can be the GPS for your boy)</p><p>i touch myself too *she hides, giggling like a school girl</p> i have been enjoying this round table i must say

my 2 cents: to the men, it doesn't help when you've already told yourself that you can tear that ass up, when it's your first time with said ass. so ego's left at the door with your smelly sneakers please.

and i agree with Mellow and Mosa, the key to knowing what you want, is to find it out yourself. (so that you can be the GPS for your boy)

i touch myself too *she hides, giggling like a school girl

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by George Gladwin Matsheke http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2434 George Gladwin Matsheke Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:10:56 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2434 <p>Yeah, and also what interesting with these is that we learn new things specially with "Round Table" topics ... which is great we are better than we were this morning *bow</p> Yeah, and also what interesting with these is that we learn new things specially with "Round Table" topics ... which is great we are better than we were this morning *bow

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by mellow http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2433 mellow Fri, 12 Mar 2010 14:01:02 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2433 <p>@GG now we get somewhere, yes Sir. Moaning it is, I'll try to remember that ;)</p> @GG now we get somewhere, yes Sir. Moaning it is, I'll try to remember that ;)

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by George Gladwin Matsheke http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2432 George Gladwin Matsheke Fri, 12 Mar 2010 13:49:01 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2432 <p>Yah, so basically communication is the solution ... ive taken notes [for research of course] ... </p><p>@Mellow - i think showing him by moaning when he hits the spot is the way ... coz talking about it creates too much pressure to perform and as far as i know no ones wants to perform under pressure ... i think also couples or freelancers need to take time and they will find their way to please each other *me thinks</p> Yah, so basically communication is the solution ... ive taken notes [for research of course] ...

@Mellow - i think showing him by moaning when he hits the spot is the way ... coz talking about it creates too much pressure to perform and as far as i know no ones wants to perform under pressure ... i think also couples or freelancers need to take time and they will find their way to please each other *me thinks

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by mellow http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2431 mellow Fri, 12 Mar 2010 13:36:15 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2431 <p>@lebogang I nod to that ;)</p> @lebogang I nod to that ;)

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by lebogang nkoane http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2430 lebogang nkoane Fri, 12 Mar 2010 13:20:15 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2430 <p>@mellow, that's true — in fact they should change, constantly, you know, for that 'oh-my-god' experience of it all.</p><p>/smile</p> @mellow, that's true — in fact they should change, constantly, you know, for that 'oh-my-god' experience of it all.

/smile

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by mellow http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2429 mellow Fri, 12 Mar 2010 13:14:51 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2429 <p>@lebogang I just took my notebook out and used a pencil instead of a pen...just in case rules change, you never know. I hear you though. </p><p>Communication is Indication!</p> @lebogang I just took my notebook out and used a pencil instead of a pen...just in case rules change, you never know. I hear you though.

Communication is Indication!

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by lebogang nkoane http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2428 lebogang nkoane Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:51:12 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2428 <p>@mellow and @mosa</p><p>here is what I know, there is some beauty (and arousal) in a woman suggesting ways to get stuff done — there is great pleasure is pleasing a girl.</p><p>I'd prefer if a she didn't say "nugga (assuming she ain't white, LOL) what are you doing?", and rather say (or suggest via hand or body movement): do this, touch this, lick that, blah, blah, blah...</p> @mellow and @mosa

here is what I know, there is some beauty (and arousal) in a woman suggesting ways to get stuff done — there is great pleasure is pleasing a girl.

I'd prefer if a she didn't say "nugga (assuming she ain't white, LOL) what are you doing?", and rather say (or suggest via hand or body movement): do this, touch this, lick that, blah, blah, blah...

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by mellow http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2427 mellow Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:50:10 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2427 <p>@Bugzy clears throat your last sentence was quite, aahh, clears throat</p> @Bugzy clears throat your last sentence was quite, aahh, clears throat

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Bugzy http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2426 Bugzy Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:47:58 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2426 <p>Cos telling can be tricky, you have to choose your words to avoid bruising the Ego and make us follow your lead you know move my hands to where you want to be touched/stroked in a subtle kind of way.</p> Cos telling can be tricky, you have to choose your words to avoid bruising the Ego and make us follow your lead you know move my hands to where you want to be touched/stroked in a subtle kind of way.

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by seilatsatsi http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2425 seilatsatsi Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:44:02 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2425 <p>like our friend here (@studio_83) would say, get drunk n get laid, in that order.</p><p>have a lovely weekend yal. </p><p>@mosa - holla when u go toy shopping, lol</p> like our friend here (@studio_83) would say, get drunk n get laid, in that order.

have a lovely weekend yal.

@mosa - holla when u go toy shopping, lol

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Mosa http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2423 Mosa Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:40:14 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2423 <p>Ok so showing rather than telling? @Bugzy?</p> Ok so showing rather than telling? @Bugzy?

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Bugzy http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2422 Bugzy Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:36:03 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2422 <p>i think showing us would be a good way to learn and what Mosa said about moaning and screaming yes if we not hitting the spot, that also would way to pick up what we are doing wrong.</p> i think showing us would be a good way to learn and what Mosa said about moaning and screaming yes if we not hitting the spot, that also would way to pick up what we are doing wrong.

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by seilatsatsi http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2421 seilatsatsi Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:35:59 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2421 <p>@mellow - "sadly enough, he'll be back later on in the night to repeat his mistakes...on you...or under you" kwakwakwakwakwa</p> @mellow - "sadly enough, he'll be back later on in the night to repeat his mistakes...on you...or under you" kwakwakwakwakwa

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by mellow http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2420 mellow Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:28:59 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2420 <p>@Mosa re: the man issue. If men knew half the things they are doing wrong they would start calling us names, I swear. It also depends if his your boyfriend or a freelancer*. Boyfriend will need to know what hes doing wrong because, sadly enough, he'll be back later on in the night to repeat his mistakes...on you...or under you, hehe. But yeah, its never easy to tell guys hence women automatically fake orgasms. <br />Maybe @Seilatsatsi can help</p><p>@GG any suggestions how to we can convey the msg without deflating the EGO?</p> @Mosa re: the man issue. If men knew half the things they are doing wrong they would start calling us names, I swear. It also depends if his your boyfriend or a freelancer*. Boyfriend will need to know what hes doing wrong because, sadly enough, he'll be back later on in the night to repeat his mistakes...on you...or under you, hehe. But yeah, its never easy to tell guys hence women automatically fake orgasms.
Maybe @Seilatsatsi can help

@GG any suggestions how to we can convey the msg without deflating the EGO?

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by seilatsatsi http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2419 seilatsatsi Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:28:39 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2419 <p>@Mosa judging by the list of mistakes we make in bed, dont scream yes n dont moan it he aint hitting it, lol. </p><p>seriously tho, which ever way u do it be kind n gentle. initiate what ud like done to u, talk bout it but just choose the right words.</p> @Mosa judging by the list of mistakes we make in bed, dont scream yes n dont moan it he aint hitting it, lol.

seriously tho, which ever way u do it be kind n gentle. initiate what ud like done to u, talk bout it but just choose the right words.

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by George Gladwin Matsheke http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2418 George Gladwin Matsheke Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:26:24 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2418 <p>@Mellow - LMAO! @like a bedtime story, lullaby<br />*hides far away ...</p> @Mellow - LMAO! @like a bedtime story, lullaby
*hides far away ...

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Mosa http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2417 Mosa Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:20:06 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2417 <p>@Seilatsatsi and Mello hehehe my birthday is around the corner! </p><p>Question: if the guy is doing something wrong how do you tell him? Well at least without killing the mood...</p> @Seilatsatsi and Mello hehehe my birthday is around the corner!

Question: if the guy is doing something wrong how do you tell him? Well at least without killing the mood...

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Queen K http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2416 Queen K Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:14:55 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2416 <p>I dig this discussion! LOL</p><p>I read "The mistakes woman make" I like this 1<br />Mistakes women make in bed #4<br />You’re too insecure<br />You want the lights off, you have to be under the covers and you never want to take off your shirt. Yeah, that sounds like some really exciting sex.</p><p>I like this 1 to!<br />Mistakes women make in bed #8<br />You don’t shave<br />I was not aware of this, but apparently many women still haven’t mastered the art of landscaping down there. And while no one’s asking you to wax down to a landing strip, it would be nice for you to at least trim that bush.</p><p>Whether you wax, laser or shave your bikini area, you need to invest in sideburn trimmers and trim your pubic hairs down to one centimeter so that when he goes down on you, he doesn’t feel like he’s going to suffocate.</p><p>Hahahaha!!</p> I dig this discussion! LOL

I read "The mistakes woman make" I like this 1
Mistakes women make in bed #4
You’re too insecure
You want the lights off, you have to be under the covers and you never want to take off your shirt. Yeah, that sounds like some really exciting sex.

I like this 1 to!
Mistakes women make in bed #8
You don’t shave
I was not aware of this, but apparently many women still haven’t mastered the art of landscaping down there. And while no one’s asking you to wax down to a landing strip, it would be nice for you to at least trim that bush.

Whether you wax, laser or shave your bikini area, you need to invest in sideburn trimmers and trim your pubic hairs down to one centimeter so that when he goes down on you, he doesn’t feel like he’s going to suffocate.

Hahahaha!!

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by mellow http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2415 mellow Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:14:19 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2415 <p>@Seilatsatsi hahahahaha</p> @Seilatsatsi hahahahaha

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by seilatsatsi http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2414 seilatsatsi Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:12:42 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2414 <p>@Mosa - its guaranteed awesomeness, lmfao</p> @Mosa - its guaranteed awesomeness, lmfao

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by mellow http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2413 mellow Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:10:44 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2413 <p>@Mosa while you're still saving up, try with your own fingers and if it feels good then go for it. Some girls get very uncomfortable, YES, even alone. If you've never had an orgasm before it will 'shock you a bit but after a while it starts becoming...what can we call it...like a bedtime story, lullaby, etc</p><p>NIKE. Just Do It!</p> @Mosa while you're still saving up, try with your own fingers and if it feels good then go for it. Some girls get very uncomfortable, YES, even alone. If you've never had an orgasm before it will 'shock you a bit but after a while it starts becoming...what can we call it...like a bedtime story, lullaby, etc

NIKE. Just Do It!

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Bugzy http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2412 Bugzy Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:05:22 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2412 <p>@GGM... we are being schooled man, interesting stuff!</p> @GGM... we are being schooled man, interesting stuff!

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by seilatsatsi http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2411 seilatsatsi Fri, 12 Mar 2010 12:01:06 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2411 <p>@Mosa - toys such as clit stimulators and vibrators. the best is just to suck it up n cough up for a vibrator that comes with a clit stimulator attached. or start small with just the stimulator at about R180-R250 and looking at bout R400 and above for the combination. </p><p>gal just walk into adult worls n the likes and have a look.</p><p>sumn like this: <a href="http://www.weirdasianews.com/2008/07/16/japanese-men-are-taking-sex-into-their-own-hands/">http://www.weirdasianews.com/2008/07/16/japanese-men-are-taking-sex-into-their-own-hands/</a></p> @Mosa - toys such as clit stimulators and vibrators. the best is just to suck it up n cough up for a vibrator that comes with a clit stimulator attached. or start small with just the stimulator at about R180-R250 and looking at bout R400 and above for the combination.

gal just walk into adult worls n the likes and have a look.

sumn like this: http://www.weirdasianews.com/2008/07/16/japanese-men-are-taking-sex-into-their-own-hands/

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by George Gladwin Matsheke http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2410 George Gladwin Matsheke Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:55:23 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2410 <p>hmmm, this is very enlightening - i knew nothing of these interesting things you guys talk about ...</p> hmmm, this is very enlightening - i knew nothing of these interesting things you guys talk about ...

]]> Comment on: Round Table: Sex Tips For Men not Boys!! by Mosa http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2409 Mosa Fri, 12 Mar 2010 11:53:58 +0200 http://studio83.co.za/news/2010/03/12/1698#response-2409 <p>@Seilatsatsi and Mellow what kinda toys are we talking about here?</p> @Seilatsatsi and Mellow what kinda toys are we talking about here?

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