During a girls night out with my friends last Sunday I asked if they would sleep their way to a fancy office with a great view, since I had recently been accused of sleeping with my ‘boss’ to get my work published which is funny considering the fact that I don't actually have a boss. Oh and the fact that the only sleeping I’ve been doing is the kind that involves counting of sheep and drool.
Initially they all said no! Never! But after a few cosmos loosened their lips, never turn into eer maybe… one friend said she would work hard for the office but sleep with the boss for the heck of it. Another said (a little too loudly) that she would sleep with anyone for anything if she really wanted it… think that was the booze speaking though.
Writer: Mosa Mahlaba Picture
Even those that I know that have done it would say no to that question. Its about what people do, not what they say.
True. but now what if you think that the boss lady is banging and you dont care much about the promotion and you you just wanna do her?
i agree with you Matomeb!
@GG so you would do it for the enjoyment? I think its cool if the two of you hook up coz you wanna hook up and not because of some hidden agenda.
i personally wouldn't sleep with my boss to get ahead
but if my boss were hot and i was generally attracted to him, i wouldn't be opposed to the favours he affords me for sleeping with him
but now we all know that if you sleep with someone who is in position to make decision that can make your life easier/worse at your place ... they are put in position to be kinda biased, no?
i guess so, but that doesn't mean that that was my goal, to get favours
believe me it only causes turmoil....giggles ***hides**
and how would you know this?
been there....i honestly did it bcos i liked the guy , he was all i thought i wanted , mature , well dressed , eloquent , oozed with confidence,and had its pecks...sometimes they were unnecessary but i wasnt complaining.
Until he decided that he wanted to rule my life ...didnt work ...parted ways and ofcourse i had to soldier on ...wouldnt do it again.
hmmm, ive never done it before - the last female boss i had was no where close to being sexy ... and she was 60 or something ---- i've learned from high school not to mix business and pleasure ... it never works out
But thats the problem. Whether u do it 2 get ahead or not there are repercussions. I never say never, but i highly doubt i'd do it. I'd feel like i owe my career 2 him. Even after many years have passed....
yes GG it never does ...but i dont regret it , it gave me the right excuse to change career paths.
@Queen K-I guess if i stayed on that would have been the case ...
hmmm ... i learned from high school never to mix please and work - i would never date a girl in the same class as mine ... becoiz i imagined it would awkward and stuff and that on its own --- its very unnecessary
I'd do it.
But, I'd have to change careers — there isn't a lot o' fine women in my industry.
/s
Is there no way one could sleep with their boss and let that be separate from work? Isnt there a line that can be drawn?
In fact — I'll sleep my way to the bottom.
/lmao
LMAO! ...
LOL... @Lebogang [disadvantage]
… don't be fooled — if we look at the women at the top of money-pyramid (ala: politicians), none of them are as fine as the women folding clothes at Edgars.
I'd rather get down-to-go-down,,,,
hahahaha Lebogang
@Lebogang well the ones we see on tv yeah maybe but there are a lot of sexy boss ladies out there...
im with writer chick on this one, if he is hot then id go for it. but whether u do it coz of attraction there are those that will think otherwise as Mosa points out.