So I was chatting to a friend of mine the other day about this, coz she says that good men are hard to find.
Then a couple of days later I bump into this article asking the opposite: Is A Good Woman Hard To Find? As much as your friend is good to you, you've never dated them - and if you could, would you date your friend?
"What many men are complaining about has nothing to do with the superficial. Instead, it has everything to do with emotional stability, domestic values, and simply knowing how to treat a man." - /via Madamenoire
I'd date my friend:
a) we're over the awkward stage
b) I've seen her without make up
c) I've seen her with all kinds of weave/braids (whatever else finds refuge on her head -- including her natural)
d) I already enjoy her company
e) technically -- she's already been woo-ed
but you havent - so you dont know what they are like in relationships. Coz jolaring and being friends nje is totally different ...
If a relationship isn't based on friendship -- what do you do with that lady when y'all is not "relating"?
you are basing your argument on apperance part and not the values this article is talking about ... is she emotional stabile, does she have good domestic values, and simply does she know how to treat a man?
You misinterpret me -- if I have her as a friend I would have first-hand knowledge on her "emotional stability, domestic values, and how she treats a man".
Friendship is like the dress rehearsal. Lol
ok i hear you - but now you only hear one side of the story [which is her's] - you never get the full story hence why is people are different when they are jolaring compared to being friends ... yes you would know her "emotional stability" as a friend but not as a lover
i wouldn't date a friend because i can't be attracted to a friend, that's just me
if i want to date you, we'll date from the onset
but once we become friends, that's sacred and should stay as such
and to answer your question, no a good woman isn't hard to find
the key is to be a good man yourself, all will piece itself together
and if you do find that girl that isn't good, you're looking in the wrong places at the wrong people